Your closet, your mind: Why organizing your closet is important
- orianetonnerre
- Aug 22
- 3 min read
We talk a lot about the emotional power of clothes. How the right outfit can shift your energy, transform your posture, or help you reclaim a part of yourself that’s been quiet for too long.
But what about the space that holds those clothes?What about the place where you begin your day, choosing how you want to show up in the world?
Your closet isn’t just a storage space.
It’s a mirror.
And when it’s chaotic, dusty, or overloaded with pieces you no longer love, it can reflect back a kind of mental fog. You open the door and instantly feel it: the weight of everything you haven’t dealt with. That soft but persistent “I should sort this out” that builds, day after day, until you're standing barefoot in front of a full wardrobe thinking, “I have nothing to wear.”
I’ve seen the pattern too many times.When my closet looks like a storm rolled through, I’m usually feeling overstimulated, scattered.I open the door, stare blankly at a tower of pants threatening to collapse, and reach for the same tired shirt I wore two days ago. Sound familiar?
Tidying isn’t About Perfection, It’s About peace.
This isn’t a manifesto for color-coded hangers or minimalist capsules. (Even if I do love those things.)This is about clarity.
It’s about walking into your space and feeling your shoulders drop.Making room, literally and emotionally, for the version of you that you're becoming.
Tidying isn’t about turning your wardrobe into a showroom, or forcing your style into minimalism (unless that’s your thing). It’s about access, the ability to see your style again.Because when your closet is a mess, something gets lost.
We fall into a loop.Wearing the 10% that’s easy to grab, while the rest, even the magical pieces, stay buried.And let’s be honest: if the closet is chaos, the top of the pile is probably the most worn, the most washed, and the least inspiring thing you own.

Small Resets, Big Shifts.
I’ve learned to listen to the little signals.When a drawer becomes a black hole, or when a pile starts leaning like it’s auditioning for the next Leaning Tower of Pisa, I take ten minutes and bring it back to center. It’s such a small act. But the effect? Surprisingly grounding. Like wiping the mirror clean so you can finally see yourself again.
And then something shifts. Not dramatically. Not all at once. But little by little, mornings feel less rushed. Your choices feel more intentional. You start your day grounded. You start showing up for yourself, not just in how you dress, but in how you think, how you speak, how you decide.
You start feeling in control.
Letting Go, Gently.
Yes, sometimes tidying means letting go. But it’s not about purging for the sake of minimalism. It’s about releasing what no longer serves you.
The sale item you never wore. The dress that belonged to another life. The piece that never quite fit, but you kept “just in case.”When you let go, you’re not just creating space. You’re creating alignment, for the woman you are today.
Because our clothes do more than cover us. They carry us. Through chapters. Through moods. Through versions of ourselves we haven’t met in a while.
There’s the coat that kept you warm through your first winter alone.The dress you wore the night you felt unstoppable.The jeans that held your confidence together on the day you almost didn’t get out of bed.

Treat Your Wardrobe Like a Boutique Curated Just for You.
No, you don’t need to redesign your closet. You don’t need marble floors or velvet hangers. What you need is a few quiet hours. A playlist you love. A cup of something warm. And a willingness to reconnect.
Start by taking everything out, one piece at a time. Be honest with yourself:What do you actually wear?What feels good on your skin?What reflects who you are now? Not who you were, or who you think you should be?
Then put things back with intention. Hang your favorites where you can see them. Fold the soft knit you reach for every Sunday. Make space for your style to breathe again. Because how we dress is a language. But how we care for our wardrobe? That’s a love letter.
Your mind, your space, your style, the clear version
Once your closet feels calm, so does your mind. You make faster choices. You feel less overwhelmed.
That simmering anxiety, the one that showed up when you were wrapped in a towel, running late, unsure of what to wear… It’s just gone.
This small act of care, so often delayed or dismissed, becomes a ritual. A reset button. A quiet return to yourself.
And in the sacred space between what you keep and what you release, you might just find something unexpected: Peace.




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